Mars wrote: One question: why no negative feedback to wowart on this? ....Regardless of who paid first, the seller should be honouring the listing that ended first.... The seller should have sold the items to the first person who bought them and it seems like they didn't.......
Mars wrote:I can understand that spock is upset with Pip but the blame here really lies with the seller.
Center_Stage wrote:It might be winter time, but Key Lime is still my favorite.
Pipswich wrote:The evidence is in the ownership.
Zenfinite wrote:Alright, I admit I got a little British there on you guys
ashmire13 wrote:I'll take salted over toffee if you have some, thanks!
Zenfinite wrote:"I got the art, so, sod off, wanker."Zenfinite
bombadil with a Clint Eastwood look in his eye wrote:We'll let it slide...this time.
mbassoc2003 wrote:Yeah. Look at the amount of people who have died in Lisa/Jonb/ETC's last six years on eBay. All during their months on eBay but not during their absences. Presumably they should have learnt that when they sell on eBay things start killing their family members. Do you think they sell D&D in order to kill their family? Or do you think when their family gets ill they sell D&D in order to pay for life saving medications and when we all don't pay enough their families die anyways?
Pipswich wrote: The evidence is in the ownership. And, in his own Ebay correspondence listed which showed I had already paid when he had not.
Pipswich wrote: And, in the fact that he worked out a side deal with Jane for additional works as a remedy.
Pipswich wrote: I think I yielded one (or two) the other party wanted very badly
Pipswich wrote: Even to me it looks like they shouldn't have been listed again unless there was a glitch in Ebay's immediate payment required system.
Pipswich wrote: However, I completed contract terms first and also spent two days negotiating the purchase anyway.
Pipswich wrote: All the while aware that another angry party was involved but expecting that access to the previously unavailable works was providing an adequate remedy for any issues.
Pipswich wrote: Note that misterspock's payment for the negotiated items I believe he bought (since she didn't just turn around and sell them to me) indicates legal completion of the transaction and agreement to its terms. If he were not happy at the time, he should not have completed/settled a transaction with Jane and pursued other options then.
Pipswich wrote: Once he negotiated an alternate purchase and completed the transaction the matter of who bought what legally ended.
Mars wrote: One question: why no negative feedback to wowart on this?
Mars wrote: I can understand that spock is upset with Pip but the blame here really lies with the seller. The seller should have sold the items to the first person who bought them and it seems like they didn't. The buyers can complain to Ebay or ask for guidance but I think we all know that Ebay decisions are determined by a room of monkeys on keyboards.
JohnGaunt wrote: But please be willing to let this rest after a while. Neither of you will give much ground in this argument, so the back-and-forth only proves who is more stubborn.
deimos3428 wrote: As fun as it is to watch it go on and on like this, it needs to come to an end. (Eventually. Take your time, it's good entertainment.) But I think the various parties involved need to stop and think about what they hope to accomplish by extending the argument.
mbassoc2003 wrote:you seem to have no problem abandoning your moral and ethical highground when you personally can profit from such corruption.
deimos3428 wrote: Are you looking for an apology? An admission of guilt? Just want to take someone down a peg? Hoping a warm fuzzy feeling will wash over us all? Trying to run someone off the site? Just like arguing? Trying to save face? Just using the argument thread to shill Lemurchat limited edition t-shirts? What?
misterspock wrote:Mars wrote:I can understand that spock is upset with Pip but the blame here really lies with the seller.Yes, I absolutely blame the seller.
faro wrote:This.If seller lists twice by accident and buyer A purchases first, but buyer B pays first, it's the seller's responsibility to resolve any contract issues arising, with eBay's assistance if required. An eBay contract does not, however, directly equate to transfer of legal ownership/title to goods, per http://pages.ebay.com/help/policies/user-agreement.html .If the seller then tells buyer B the circumstances and buyer B offers to pay for the other item buyer A has won if they do not wish that any more, believing that having paid first means that they now have legal title to goods on the other two items, it is again the seller's responsibility to resolve that matter. The obvious answer should be a firm "no".Buyer B exacerbating the matter by overstepping is secondary to the seller's performance issues and certainly less "shady" (given the above scenario) than other observed behaviors where, for example, there is only a single listing and a third party armtwists the seller to cancel and refund payment on a completed contract.02c/ymmv, anyhow...
Pipswich wrote:There remains nothing there that is inconsistent with my first post.
Pipswich wrote:The auctions were set up as immediate payment required. He did not pay immediately as his post above indicates. As such he did not meet the contract terms and they remained listed FOR SALE on ebay.
Pipswich wrote:As such, they remained listed with ebay for sale. I bought them in good faith and met both the contract terms and Ebay terms.
Pipswich wrote:I was subsequently contacted by the seller and told that another former client was upset that he didn't win the auctions. I ended up not getting on of the items Ebay determined that I was supposed to.
Pipswich wrote:This is simple. You didn't pay immediately when the auctions were set up requiring payment.
Pipswich wrote:If you don't have the money to pay for immediate payment required auctions don't cry foul when someone beats you to the purchase.
Pipswich wrote:While you were negotiating a better price on shipping, they sold. Too bad for you.
Pipswich wrote:Anyone here is welcome to go try to buy an immediate payment required auction and not pay. You will see the item remains listed for a legitimate buyer who meets the terms of the sale.
Pipswich wrote:Misterspock, I have not had any real issues with you, but you just managed to whine about your own ineptitude. Kudos.
Pipswich wrote:Oh, and the item I won but did not get, was negotiated for his benefit, without even knowing who he was. Jane offered me some other things that I liked just as much and I purchased them instead... so that a stranger might at least get one of the things he/she wanted and so that Jane could try to retain a client.
Pipswich wrote:I was straight up about this and did not post details formerly simply out of respect for Jane, who appeared to be trying to run a business and got caught in a tough spot. She initially didn't understand the immediate payment required issue, herself, but Ebay clarified it.
Pipswich wrote:Misterspock then began lying about the circumstances to his friends which is what began the tirades against me on this site. I weathered them as gracefully as possible, but some of you should be ashamed of yourselves. I openly posted references to this transaction and suggested the angry party contact me and I have spoken several times on the phone to individuals who had heard only his side of the story. I encouraged them to have him contact me directly, as well.
Pipswich wrote:Until today, I did not know who this individual was. He hid behind a cloak of anonymity making false accusations.
Pipswich wrote:There is a reason for that hiding. I have been libeled, slandered and defamed by him in hiding. He did not bring this matter into the open because it was in his own best interest to keep it in hiding and exercise his anger where he could lie about the context of the sales.
Pipswich wrote:Most of you know at least a couple of things about me. When someone lists something I like with immediate payment required or otherwise, I buy and pay on the spot. I then expect the seller to ship the item.