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Post Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 7:35 am 
 

HermitFromPluto wrote:As it is a relatively big event in one's routine, thought I would mention here that I bought a house today .....  PDT_Armataz_01_03  ..... will be in debt for the first time. One less competitor for the big items as I will be scrimping and saving now. Already decided not to bid on those beholders just listed. Anyway, it should be great, a bedroom for each of my boys  :)  and a library / games room for Daddy  :cheers:


Congrats on the new house and especially your library/game room/man cave.  When ever I moved into a new house, one of the first things I did was paint the closets.  Once stuff gets socked away inside, it's a major pain to haul it all out only to put it all back in.  And since closets are a relatively small space, it doesn't take that long to do.  Plus, you don't want any remnant smoke or pet smells filtering into your clothes or collection.  Just something to consider.   8)


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Post Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 8:55 am 
 

benjoshua wrote:...When ever I moved into a new house, one of the first things I did was paint the closets.  Once stuff gets socked away inside, it's a major pain to haul it all out only to put it all back in.  And since closets are a relatively small space, it doesn't take that long to do.  Plus, you don't want any remnant smoke or pet smells filtering into your clothes or collection.  Just something to consider.   8)


I totally second this advice! It may sound oddly counter-intuitive to start any decoration with the inside of storage areas (and not e.g. the kitchen etc..), but for these very reasons it is a wise move.

One thing I always do early on is thoroughly scrub and (repaint if necessary) all the windows and window-frames.

Oh - and congratulations!!  :D


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Post Posted: Sun May 20, 2012 9:05 am 
 

Thanks for the advice. I will look into that. 'Man cave' .... I like it!!! 8)

  


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Post Posted: Sun May 20, 2012 3:00 pm 
 

I often like to listen to the radio when I am in the bath - and today I just caught by accident this programme.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b01hjs15

Which was just brilliant, interesting, thought-provoking and totally what Radio 4 is all about.  I recommend  :D


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Post Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 10:42 am 
 

HermitFromPluto wrote:As it is a relatively big event in one's routine, thought I would mention here that I bought a house today .....  PDT_Armataz_01_03  ..... will be in debt for the first time. One less competitor for the big items as I will be scrimping and saving now. Already decided not to bid on those beholders just listed. Anyway, it should be great, a bedroom for each of my boys  :)  and a library / games room for Daddy  :cheers:



In buying a house, it's all about the man-cave...

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Post Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 4:36 pm 
 

I never liked the term "man cave". I'm not 100% sure why either. It just never sat right with me, like, our pastimes should be relegated to a cave. I have a game room.  :P Not my problem if the average person thinks pool cues and poker tables. There's more than one kind of game. Just a personal foible of mine.

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Post Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 9:30 pm 
 

Zenfinite wrote:I never liked the term "man cave". I'm not 100% sure why either. It just never sat right with me, like, our pastimes should be relegated to a cave. I have a game room.  :P Not my problem if the average person thinks pool cues and poker tables. There's more than one kind of game. Just a personal foible of mine.

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What about mantuary?   :?:   Rarely used, but a genuine synonym for what we're discussing.

Maxim Sanctum or Massage Garage are alternatives for ladies men (or people who think they are ladies men).
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Rumpus Room for man-kids with too much energy.
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Earphone Zone for media specialists.
The Hang out for people older than fifty.

I like man cave.  It fits in with my primeval desire to hoard and express myself so I know who I am.....wait, that doesn't sound so good now.  Let me think about this.   :?


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Post Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 10:41 pm 
 

Most commencement speeches survive in the graduates' memory for about the lifespan of a fruitfly.

Neil Gaiman gave this year's commencement address at the University of the Arts in Philadelphia.  Unsurprisingly, it is not the typical speech, and certainly the best I've heard since Steve Jobs'.

My son's status on gmail has been changed to "Pretending I'm someone who can do it."  Listen and you'll see why.

http://vimeo.com/uartsphilly/neil-gaima ... ss-of-2012


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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 1:11 am 
 

I just would like to rant quickly regarding two nearby game stores. I don't understand much about the business, but what I do understand is competency.

I live in Northern Arizona and the two closest game stores are equidistant from me, one in Prescott and one in Flagstaff. Recently I have been to both of them and I notice the exact same thing about them. They do to want my business.

It's not that I am their target market (I post here so that should be obvious), but I have a fondness for game stores and would like to spend money there on gifts for my nephews, etc. However after going into both stores and looking around I had zero contact with anyone in either store. Not a hello, not a can I help you, not a what 40k army do you want units for, not anything. I hate to be a killjoy, but these guys are asking to go out of business. The odd part to me is why pay the rent and then spend your time playing Magic? Can't you do that at home? Why ignore a guy who, although not stylish, dresses like he has some money? I just do not get it.


I know that people lament the loss of FLGS', but to be honest I haven't had a good experience in one since 2003 ( and that one was owned by Scott Bizar, love him or hate him he understood customer service). I have finally come to the unhappy conclusion that games stores are not dying, they are killing themselves.

If anyone near me can recommend a store that is different in my area, I am all in.

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P.S. I had the same problem in San Francisco whilst living there as well, so I doubt it's a local thing.

P.P.S. The only exception to this is Imperial Outpost Games in Phoenix, but that is both too far away and an exception, rather than the rule. The rest of the stores I have been to in Az are terrible in every way.

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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 1:42 am 
 

Nogrod wrote:I know that people lament the loss of FLGS', but to be honest I haven't had a good experience in one since 2003 ( and that one was owned by Scott Bizar, love him or hate him he understood customer service). I have finally come to the unhappy conclusion that games stores are not dying, they are killing themselves.


Bad service and the pizza and cheeseburger lifestyle have done in a number, one way or another, around me.


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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 1:53 am 
 

Architecturally, a "man cave" should be called a "growlery," or so I would want Dickens to testify... so I do.


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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 2:13 am 
 

Nogrod wrote:I just would like to rant quickly regarding two nearby game stores. I don't understand much about the business, but what I do understand is competency.

I live in Northern Arizona and the two closest game stores are equidistant from me, one in Prescott and one in Flagstaff. Recently I have been to both of them and I notice the exact same thing about them. They do to want my business.

It's not that I am their target market (I post here so that should be obvious), but I have a fondness for game stores and would like to spend money there on gifts for my nephews, etc. However after going into both stores and looking around I had zero contact with anyone in either store. Not a hello, not a can I help you, not a what 40k army do you want units for, not anything. I hate to be a killjoy, but these guys are asking to go out of business. The odd part to me is why pay the rent and then spend your time playing Magic? Can't you do that at home? Why ignore a guy who, although not stylish, dresses like he has some money? I just do not get it.


I know that people lament the loss of FLGS', but to be honest I haven't had a good experience in one since 2003 ( and that one was owned by Scott Bizar, love him or hate him he understood customer service). I have finally come to the unhappy conclusion that games stores are not dying, they are killing themselves.

If anyone near me can recommend a store that is different in my area, I am all in.

Zach

P.S. I had the same problem in San Francisco whilst living there as well, so I doubt it's a local thing.

P.P.S. The only exception to this is Imperial Outpost Games in Phoenix, but that is both too far away and an exception, rather than the rule. The rest of the stores I have been to in Az are terrible in every way.

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Most people who own game stores are not, first and foremost, businessmen (or women). They are gamers. Also, a tendency of game stores is to hire their patrons. Usually kids. Obviously, they haven't the highest level of retail training. Also, lots of people pigeonhole customers, based on their clothing, attitude, what have you. It's quite possible they pegged you in the "just looking" category, who knows. Or, honestly, they just sucked at their job. It's hard finding anyone who does their "job" with any level of competency. Good luck in your search, I know I don't have a FLGS I'd spend money in.

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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 5:43 am 
 

I understand what this is and I totally agree it kills shops.

JasonZavoda wrote:Bad service ...


But I have genuinely never heard this phrase before!

JasonZavoda wrote:....the pizza and cheeseburger lifestyle have done in a number, one way or another, around me.


Presumably it is a US slang term?  Hmmm, guessing.. I suppose it might mean that most people now are too fat to go out and shop, or alternatively that everyone gets stuff ordered in (like pizza, but surely not burgers?).  Or, perhaps that an increasingly coarsened (i.e. fast-food) culture means that people do not care for complex gaming anymore. Or something else? It sounds great and I would love to use it - once I know what it means  :D


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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 8:22 am 
 

JasonZavoda wrote:
Nogrod wrote:I know that people lament the loss of FLGS', but to be honest I haven't had a good experience in one since 2003 ( and that one was owned by Scott Bizar, love him or hate him he understood customer service). I have finally come to the unhappy conclusion that games stores are not dying, they are killing themselves.


Bad service and the pizza and cheeseburger lifestyle have done in a number, one way or another, around me.


The FLGS has been dying, in one way or another, since the early 90s (same time as the Friendly Local Comic Store and Friendly Local Music Store).  The ones that have lasted, stubbornly clinging on in an internet culture, are the ones that have either adapted to the times (survival of the fittest) or ones that feed off a local community of gamers that are so desperate they keep the the store alive despite everything to the contrary.  I'm constantly amazed in this era of "customer service or die" that so many stores can still be open when I go inside and I'm completely underwhelmed by their service, attitude, and selection.  My FLGS, open almost 20 years now, still has zero internet presence and refuses to stock any OSR items in favor of the big box brands (WOTC or bust).  Their service is indifferent and attitude is annoying (sometimes, not always). However, they continue to survive because they are smack dab in the middle of an affluent suburban area, great location, with no alternatives nearby.  I wonder how much more successful they could have been putting a modicum of effort into customer service or stocking items that might expand their customer base.

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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 8:46 am 
 

Badmike wrote:  I wonder how much more successful they could have been putting a modicum of effort into customer service or stocking items that might expand their customer base.

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So what you are saying is that they might not be helpful in case of a collecting emergency?

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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 9:05 am 
 

red_bus wrote:But I have genuinely never heard this phrase before!

JasonZavoda wrote:....the pizza and cheeseburger lifestyle have done in a number, one way or another, around me.


Presumably it is a US slang term?  Hmmm, guessing.. I suppose it might mean that most people now are too fat to go out and shop, or alternatively that everyone gets stuff ordered in (like pizza, but surely not burgers?).  Or, perhaps that an increasingly coarsened (i.e. fast-food) culture means that people do not care for complex gaming anymore. Or something else? It sounds great and I would love to use it - once I know what it means  :D

I've never heard this phrase before either so its not some U.S. only slang term that is used heavily over here.  I suppose Jason made it up.  We could call it a "Zavodaism".


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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 9:39 am 
 

Nogrod wrote:
Badmike wrote:  I wonder how much more successful they could have been putting a modicum of effort into customer service or stocking items that might expand their customer base.

Mike B.


So what you are saying is that they might not be helpful in case of a collecting emergency?

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They would be EXTREMELY unhelpful, unless your collecting emergency involved Pathfinder or 4E D&D......

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Post Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 9:50 am 
 

badmike wrote:
So what you are saying is that they might not be helpful in case of a collecting emergency?

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Badmike wrote: They would be EXTREMELY unhelpful, unless your collecting emergency involved Pathfinder or 4E D&D......

Mike B.


The truth is I don't know anything about pathfinder. 4E only exists in my mind when it goes on sale at Barnes &
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